and she's rambling again

I've MOVED!

2009-07-23T21:24:00.003-05:00

I still see that I have subscribers here....

PLEASE PLEASE move your subscription to HERE !!!

Thank you !!!! :-)

New Blog

2009-07-19T14:58:00.002-05:00

I never really liked my blog title...or how my domain name never matched. I had no idea what I was doing when I set up this blog.

I am starting a NEW blog! It will be called The B's Nest. I hope all of my followers will continue to follow me there!!

Here is the link...

http://thebsnest.blogspot.com/

I will remind you again in a few days!

Brozek Honeymoon {Random Pix}

2009-07-07T07:00:00.002-05:00

***Warning: Lots of pictures.

We were in Santa Barbara for the remainder of our honeymoon. Here are some random pictures I want to share with you. They are a calibration of special moment we shared, and how we remember our first week as husband and wife.

Brozek Honeymoon {Part 5}

2009-07-06T07:00:00.002-05:00

Horseback riding was a beautiful yet terrifying experience.

#1 it's really hard to ride a horse up and down a steep mountain. I don't care what anyone says.

#2 it's even harder when you look to your right and you could drop thousands of feet down. No there weren't safety bars. We were on a REAL mountain.

#3 You just want to cry when your horses start fighting for a pretty yellow flower (to eat) and they started running....while your bouncing up and down off your horse....and the horse slips and falls into a mountain wall. And even though it hurts like hell, your are just thankful it didn't slip the other way because that would equal death. Because that would have sucked.

But here is the pay off...

Isn't that view amazing?

All worth it.

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Brozek Honeymoon {Part 4}

2009-07-05T07:00:00.001-05:00

After our Santa Monica adventure we traveled 2 hours to Santa Barbara. It was so exhilarating to drive through the canyons and right on the coast. We were able to see the ocean all the way to Santa Barbara.

As we got closer we noticed a lot of smoke coming off the Santa Ynez mountains. We weren't sure what it was until we got our hotel...and then we were told the wild fires had started (and if you look below you can start to see the smoke). The power was out, and our credit card wouldn't go through. It was an interesting welcome into the beautiful town of Santa Barbara!!

But none of those things mattered..we were on our honeymoon. And it was pure bliss.

Absolutely Perfect.

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Happy 4th of July!

2009-07-04T10:00:00.001-05:00

Have a safe and Happy 4th Of July!!!!

Brozek Honeymoon {Part 3}

2009-07-04T07:00:00.001-05:00

The 2nd day of our honeymoon I was extremely excited to get our butts to Santa Monica Pier. I had NEVER seen the ocean, and I couldn't wait to get there! I was so close I could smell it!

When we got about 3 blocks away..I could hear the waves. It was then that I fell in love with the ocean. (Oh how I miss it so..)

We walked the beach and the pier all day. It was so relaxing yet so exciting at the same time. We rode the ferris wheel, took lots of pictures, went to the aquarium, wrote our names in the sand and just sat and watched the waves all day. It was one of my favorite days....

Oh and we also ate at the Bubba Gump Shrimp Co.! I had to take this picture...(total tourist..but I didn't care!)

Brozek Honeymoon {Part 2}

2009-07-03T07:00:00.001-05:00

First stop L.A.

We arrived in LA..and the first thing Mike pointed out was a palm tree (since I had never seen one in real life). I felt like a little kid! I was so excited, and I hadn't even got outside the airport yet!

After we arrived at our hotel, we decided our 1st stop would be Hollywood. No particular reason...other than we were only 10 minutes away and I was starving. I knew I could find something yummy there!

On the way to Hollywood we got lost in that huge canyon. Yes, we got lost. And my car was literally slipping backwards at every stop sign. Minor freak out..but we made it!

Then we drove through Beverly Hills. It was so pretty! But I soon got bored... since I work in a town with even bigger houses than they have there... So we decided to call it a early night and relax at the hotel. It was amazing since it was our first night as newlyweds to just relax. And get a good night's sleep. Couldn't ask for anything better on the 1st night of our honeymoon.

Next up Santa Monica!

Brozek Honeymoon {Part 1}

2009-07-02T22:18:00.004-05:00

As promised the next few posts are entirely dedicated to our honeymoon...

We went to California. I was especially excited because I had never flown before and I was just so excited to see California.....I'm not one to sit on the beach and drink a Piña Colada. And since I have never really traveled I wanted more of an adventure...and boy did we get an adventure! We got lost in a canyon, almost fell off a BIG canyon on a horse and got to see the wild fires of Santa Barbara (just to name a few!).

My first plane ride was fun....but seemed so long because was so excited! The suspense was killing me!

Here I am looking out the window trying to imagine what our honeymoon would be like. I just love this shot. It's an amazing memory of my first plane ride...and not knowing what was ahead of us.

A Quick Update

2009-06-30T17:36:00.002-05:00

I'm still alive.

I'm really sorry for my lack of posts. Truth be told I've been really busy...and when I'm not so super busy I've been spending a lot of quality time with my hubby. He asked me shortly before we got married if I would promise to spend less time on the computer-and I made him that promise. But I've felt super guilty for not posting... I have lots of things in my head I want to post-and I promise I will start posting regularly soon.

Until then I will leave you with a picture from our honeymoon....

Our After-Party 5-2-09

2009-06-03T07:00:00.000-05:00

After the wedding a lot of us took a shuttle back to our hotel. And everyone crashed our hotel! It was a really fun time! My parents (who haven't seen each other in 20 years were even hanging with us!)

I wish we had more alcohol...my bottle of vodka lasted 10 minutes. But it was a memorable and fun after-party!

Here are some pix!

Me and my sister Michelle

Me and Rachael...

All of us!

We all had a great time!!!

A big THANK YOU to my Dad for making it all possible!

Next up...Our honeymoon!

Our Reception 5-2-09

2009-06-02T07:00:00.000-05:00

It's taken me so long to post recaps of our wedding because in our eyes it was so perfect we just wanted a few weeks to just soak it up. Yes, there were some minor things that went wrong (more on that another time!). But we didn't even care. We had the best time of our lives...it was so much fun. And such an amazing experience.

Here are a few pictures I have until the pro-pix. Enjoy!

Next up...the After-Party!

Our 'Pre-Reception' 5-2-09

2009-06-01T07:00:00.002-05:00

On our way to the reception was really nice...our good friends Bella and Ryan drove us. And I wouldn't have been more happy (and honored) for them to drive us. They are great friends and we are so lucky to have them.

When we got to the reception we were able to walk the courtyard of the Country Squire..and have some alone time. It was so much fun to walk around and pose every now and then. We got some really great shots from our photographer. They are probably my favorites out of the whole day. Since I don't have the digital proofs...I can't show you those yet. But hopefully soon!

Here is what I do have...

There are some pretty fabulous pictures of Mike and I in the courtyard. And I promise to post them as soon as I get them!

More to come soon!

Our Nuptial Mass 5-2-09

2009-05-31T07:00:00.000-05:00

Once I walked into the church...everyone was all smiles. Including me! I had thought all throughout planning I would be nervous as hell moments before (and during) walking down the aisle. But surprisingly I wasn't! Not a single bit! I was just overly excited! I just couldn't wait to walk down the aisle and see Mike!

It was whirl of emotions walking down the aisle. I remember people talking to me..telling me how pretty I was. And I just remember smiling and looking at all the people. When I looked at Mike from what I could tell...he was smiling from ear to ear. But when I finally got up close...I soon found out he was all teary eyed! It was the cutest thing.

When we got to the alter..we quickly grabbed each others hands and just smiled at each other. I asked him what he thought of my dress and he told me he LOVED it. Which made me smile even more! He then told me I was the prettiest bride he has ever seen. Aww...I love him!

During our vows, I again wasn't nervous at all! I just kept thinking OMG we are almost married! I was smiling so much my cheeks were hurting...and Mike kept smiling back. We had some personal memorable moments. And it was perfect...and then we were married!

Unfortunately, I do not have very many pictures of the ceremony (until I get my digital proofs from the photographer) but here is what I have...Enjoy!

Mr. and Mrs. Michael Brozek!

More to come soon!

Getting Ready 5-2-09

2009-05-30T07:00:00.007-05:00

Ahh..the morning of the wedding. My first thoughts of waking up was....I'm tired! I am a horrible person to wake up in the morning...no one had to fight me. But boy was I tired! The first couple hours I lazed around...talking to all the girls, watching them get ready, eating breakfast and drinking coffee. It was awesome just to sit back and relax.

Here I am caught chillaxin..

Once it was my turn to get ready..it was all a blur. I got in the shower and the next thing I knew I was doing my makeup....while Bella (MOH) is taking pictures of me. Then it was time for my hair. The photog came...and I was in my dress. I tried hard to take everything in...and I did. But I will tell you...it happened SO fast!

Ok..on with the pictures!

Now it was time to put on the dress....these are all amateur pictures. I promise to have pro-pix soon!

Here I am waiting to walk into church...while Bella is marking 'Just Married!' on the back of the car. I love this shot! (Thanks Ryan!)

Our Rehearsal 5-1-09

2009-05-29T16:40:00.005-05:00

I'm sorry I teased you with those 2 fabulous pictures... but I just couldn't resist! Isn't the first one so cute?!!!

OK The day of our rehearsal I spent the day getting pampered with my friend/BM April and my Mom and sister/BM Michelle. We got mani/pedi's. It was so nice!

Then down to business.. when we got to the church it was a little over whelming. Lots of people were there...and I felt like it turned into chaos by the time we got into the church. I forgot to explain to the ushers their duties...and I messed up our bridal party line because too many people were talking to me. But I didn't even notice until our intro's at our reception...and by that time - I didn't care!

Enough rambling...Here are some pix...Enjoy!!

After dinner me and the girls (and my cousin Nate) went back to the hotel and hung out..till it was time to get some bridal beauty sleep!

Next up...Morning of-Getting Ready!

I'm a tease!

2009-05-28T22:17:00.002-05:00

A.M.A.Z.I.N.G!!!!

2009-05-12T19:54:00.002-05:00

We did it! We are married!!!!

Our wedding was amazing. It was perfect..(well not perfect) but perfect in our eyes. There were a few minor issues that happened...but I didn't even care. We had so much fun!!

We just came back from our honeymoon and I don't have a lot of time to blog..so I'm going to leave you with our Shutterfly link. Feel free to look as much as you want....and if you are friends or family...PLEASE upload your pictures on to this site!!! So far, we have 158 pictures...

http://jenniferandmichael.shutterfly.com/

Enjoy!!!!

Slim to None

2009-04-29T07:00:00.000-05:00

Hi there... our wedding is just days away..and I wanted to let you all know my postings may become slim to none. I wish I could post and let you know how everything is going but realistically I have NO time!

Today I am...
Dropping off my veil to get steamed
Dropping off final payment to our Florist
Packing for California
Packing for our wedding night
Getting our rings cleaned

Thursday we are...
Taking everything to our reception venue and showing them how to set up
Taking my Dad and Mike to pick up their tuxes
Picking up my dress :)
Preparing for rehearsal

Friday I am...
Relaxing and getting a manicure and pedicure with my mom and a of the few girls
Rehearsal
Dinner
Back to hotel to relax!!!

Saturday we are..... GETTING MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!

I can't believe these days are finally here. It's so surreal but all so very exciting!!

See you on the other side!!
OXOX

Work Shower

2009-04-28T08:00:00.000-05:00

I have the BEST co-workers in the world!!! Last week they threw me a Bridal Luncheon. It was so sweet and so perfect. The food was delicious and the details were SO awesome. I also got a very generous present. I am so lucky to work in such a fabulous place!!!!

Thank you ladies!

I'm a Godmother!

2009-04-28T07:00:00.002-05:00

Got to sign my new name...and we don't get married till Saturday!

This past Sunday I had the honor of becoming a Godmother...to a sweet little Autumn Rae Gonyo. It was such a sweet experience. I am so honored my friends Steve and Rachael asked me to be the Godmother. I will cherish my title and fulfill all my duties. I will spoil her all the days of my life!!!

Here is my little princess...

Let me call you Sweetheart..

2009-04-27T19:40:00.004-05:00

We have a tradition in our family to do this dance...

The Let Me Call You Sweetheart Dance.

It looks like this.

My Grandparents 5-12-53

4 more days....I cannot wait!!!!!!!!

Bachelorette Party!

2009-04-25T20:27:00.005-05:00

Sorry for my lack of posts...things are getting crazy around here...our wedding is 6 days away!!

Last weekend was my Bachelorette Party...it was SO much fun! My MOH Bella did a such a GREAT job of planning it. We started out at a hotel in downtown Chicago...had pizza...opened some NAUGHTY presents..and went walking down Rush and Division! Great {Drunken} times!

Here are some pix...

I love Chicago. I'm so glad I live here.... we have to do this more often girls!!!!

Checklists!

2009-04-08T07:00:00.001-05:00

Considering how crazy things have been lately...I was able to get a lot of things done...

Here is what I have left to do...

Get a thank you cards for Fr. Bart, our Florist and our organist
Teach my uncle Mark how to use video camera-provide list of moments to capture
Book final haircut/color
Final fitting-April 16 @ 7:15pm
Attend Bachelorette party-April 18--woooo hoooo!
Verify Honeymoon Itinerary (calls hotels/etc and confirm reservations)
Book horseback riding trip
Make time line/itineraries for the Big Day-almost done!
Final head count/payments to reception hall
Layout/seating chart to reception hall
Florist - finalizeMake place cards
Make place cards
Book mani/pedi appointment
Confirm any final payments due
Put together overnight bag for the night before and Wedding Night
Start packing/making a list of stuff to pack for your Honeymoon
Leave a copy of Honeymoon Itinerary with someone back home

Not too bad, eh??

Mustache or No Mustache?

2009-04-07T20:46:00.003-05:00

Mama B made me an picture album full of Mikey's pictures from when he was a baby through till now. And I saw a picture of Mikey from about 2 years before we met. He didn't have the mustache...but had the goatee. He looked smokin hot! So, I asked him to shave it off. I have never seen him without it...in real life. And I can't decide if I like it... Granted I'm not use to it. (But the added bonus..is I don't get rug burn on my face and neck anymore..ha!) But we are deciding on how he should shave on the BIG DAY...

So, let's take a vote??!!

With the mustache...

Without the mustache...

Which do you like better???

Making it Legal!

2009-04-07T07:00:00.000-05:00

One fun thing we got to do is get our Marriage License! It was fun! And I was grinning from ear to ear when we left...

Only 25 more days!!!

Problem Averted

2009-04-06T21:21:00.002-05:00

I received a phone call from our hotel manager today. She had some technical problems last week, and didn't get a chance to call me until today... So, I was able to book our hotel room for our wedding night as well as a hotel room for me and the girls to stay in the night before. She even gave me an early check in so I can deliver my dress early!

Thank goodness she called. Because I was ready to have melt down.

I just feel so overwhelmed. There is a minor issue with Mike's unemployment statement. My Dad is stressing over the seating chart. And I need 25 more people to come to our reception-to ensure my Dad doesn't waste any money. I know what matters most is that Mike and I become husband and wife-but that doesn't fix these problems. I'm scared for what will happen if Mike doesn't find a job by the time his unemployment runs out...that is what I'm really afraid of.

I really didn't want to postpone babies. They say you are never financially ready, however- I think both of us should at least be employed. One of my downfalls is that I worry too much...which leads to me to stress...then over-analyze. But I just can't help it. This is one of those real life - all grown up- issues...that I think we need to worry about.

Thank god that hotel manager called today...

Thanks for listening to me ramble!

More Bad luck..

2009-04-06T07:00:00.002-05:00

Mike got laid off last Thursday. I'm so sad for him...and also majorly scared. I hope he finds something soon after the wedding. Otherwise, I'm not sure how we will make ends meet. It couldn't have come at a worst time...But we have lots of people willing to help him put his name out there-and the temp agency he worked for is going to help him too.

Please pray he finds something soon.

Stressed out!

2009-04-05T18:49:00.002-05:00

This is how I feel.

I thought I was ok...

But nope. I'm not. This weekend our guest list and our seating chart has stressed me out!

We are 50 people short. We signed a contract for 225 people-whether they come or not-that is how many plates we are paying for. I think I may have over guesstimated our +1 guests. Grrr! This makes me so mad because there were so many more people I wanted to invite but my Dad said no. Now he is telling me to get more invitations out-STAT! I am doing that now...but I just feel horrible. I don't want these people thinking they weren't wanted. Because they were! I just screwed up! Can't exactly put that on the invitation though....

Also, the seating chart is so HARD! We have a lot of people already-and everyone has their own immediate families. But they all don't fit at a table. We have had to split a lot of people up. It's just been a frustrating task....especially when you have 3 people telling you what to do-and what not to do...and when you have certain guests requesting to be seated with a specific person. I knew this would be hard-but I didn't think it would be THIS hard! I'm hoping to finish this up after Easter...and then give our caterer our final head count.

One more thing...our hotel manager isn't answering our calls. This infuriates me! Let me give you a little background story. The hotel we are using is brand new-and conveniently next door to our reception venue. However, it doesn't open to the public until April 24th. But we signed a contract stating it would be available to reserve starting April 1. Now our guests are calling me and our parents to complain they cannot reach anyone at the hotel-and neither can I! I still need to book our wedding night reservation-and me and the girls are staying there the night before. I am hoping she returns my phone call as soon as possible....it's so frustrating!!

This is also why I haven't blogged in a while-I am so sorry!! But it's been a hectic week!

T minus 5 weeks

2009-03-28T10:14:00.000-05:00

I can't believe we only have 5 weeks until the wedding.

And only 36 more days.

That's crazzzzyyy.

I'm definitely getting antsy. And I've most definitely had some minor freak outs. But all in all-we have everything under control.

Here is my To-Do list:

Mail Rehearsal invites (Monday)
Complete Programs (April 4th)
Ribbon favors (tomorrow night)
Mail final DJ payment (Monday)
Send photographer the checklist (Monday)
Complete grandparent/parent photos for reception-pictures coming soon!
Shop for baskets to put guestbook quilt squares in
Buy fabric pens
Think about Guestbook signage (got any good ideas??)
Seating charts
Day-Of timelines

Am I miss something???

I think everything is going to fall into place without any problems. I am calm. And somewhat organized.

Oh I can't wait!!!

2nd dress fitting

2009-03-27T22:08:00.003-05:00

All I have to say is WOW.

I absolutely LOVE my dress.

When I put it on, and looked in the mirror I was even speechless. My seamstress is doing such a great job.

There are just a few minor things that still need to be done.

Taken in 1 more inch around the waist (equaling about 6 inches all together)
Shortened about an inch-since I'm so short...
And the boning under my armpit was poking me-so she has to adjust it.

April 16th is my FINAL fitting. Only 2 weeks away! I can't believe it. I have my pictures uploaded on my work computer so I can randomly stare at it...I just can't help it. I love it SO much. I CANNOT wait to wear it.

I wish I can post pictures...but I can't. Mikey WILL see it. So...if you want me to email you pix comment me with your email address!!

My Shower

2009-03-27T21:41:00.006-05:00

****Warning LONG post!****

My shower was fabulous. All of my girls did an amazing job. But I have to especially thank Bella, my Matron of Honor. She planned all of it...and set up all the decorations. It was truly such a special occasion that I will cherish for the rest of my life.

I have to admit I was extremely nervous. My stomach was in knots when I arrived. But soon dissipated when I had my first glass of punch. The day also FLEW BY! It started at 1pm and ended at 5:30pm. It did not feel that long at all...it literally flew by! I tried to talk to each and everyone of my (50 or so guests) which I thought was a little intimidating. But it worked-and I heard I did a great job... Thank goodness!

Enough with my rambling...let me show you pictures!!

First here are some detail shots. Didn't Bella do a great job?!?!

The guests..

Bella asked Mike and I questions prior to the shower. We did not know our answers...but all I can say is Mike's answers got a lot of "Awwww's". I really am marrying a sweatheart!

Time for presents!!

My good friend Natalia got this blanket for us...Isn't it adorable?!!

I really love this picture, my aunt Patty (in the blue) has the sweetest look on her face.

This is the FABULOUS gift I got from Bella. She made it. Isn't it just wonderful?!!! I absolutely love it. Thank you Bella! OXOX!

Introductions!

Here is my Mom, my sister/bridesmaid and me.

Here is me and all my girlies! Aren't they lovely?!

Thank you girls!!! I loved EVERY second of my shower!!! OXOX

Pre-Cana with Uncle Fr. Bart

2009-03-25T20:53:00.005-05:00

I've been an extremely bad blogger. I apologize to you all. It's been a hectic 2 weeks. I've had Pre-Cana, my shower, mini-bachelorette party, designing/editing my programs, thank you cards, exchanging/returning items...We have been running non-stop.

I am finally sitting and taking a break from all this craziness. (And when I say crazy...I mean it in a good way)

Pre-Cana is way better than I expected. We actually had fun-and gained a lot. Mentally and spiritually. My uncle Fr. Bart is our officiant and he was our teacher for part of the day. I have to admit he is a wonderful teacher. He keeps you wanting more and really sends out a great message.

Here are a few key elements we touched on..

The Goods Of Marriage:

Partnership/Union-a mutual understanding of the whole life:spirit, mind, body and affections.
Permanence: Marriage lasts for as long as the couple lives. The marriage is indissoluble.
Fidelity: Living out life-long promise to give yourself only to your spouse.
Procreation: Willingness to cooperate with God in creating new life.
Self-donation and Self-sacrifice

10 Dynamics that can threaten a marriage:

Clinging to single life patterns
Avoiding the serious issues
Dropping church attendance
Ambiguity about children
Coming of the first child
Placing your career first
Ignoring alcohol and drug abuse
Copntrolling influence of parents
Negative effects of contraception
Ignoring that not-right feeling

We also had a lecture on the Billings Ovulation Method. Which we will definitely be taking a more indepth class on. Birth Control can really be dangerous; causing it extremely hard to conceive and even the possibility of becoming sterile. It also can cause mood swings, anxiety and depression. I highly recommend check this out.

At the end of class we headed into church for a little 'surprise'. We got to attend an engagement blessing. We went up to the altar-read our engagement vows, signed a certificate and had my engagement ring blessed.

It was truly an amazing day.

A sweet present

2009-03-24T10:24:00.003-05:00

Here is a sneak preview to one of the gifts I got at my shower this past Saturday.

My friend Natalia made this into a blanket, isn't it so cute?!

I'm sorry I haven't posted much lately. I'm have been overly stressed with the amount of things I have to do. I promise I will give you a recap of events really soon!

1st fitting

2009-03-13T22:54:00.002-05:00

This past Wednesday I had my 1st wedding gown fitting. My moh Bella came along for 'support'...she was so wonderful! She helped me with everything, I must say I have the best MOH!!!!

My weight loss paid off! They will be taking about 4-5 inches off the bodice of the dress! And they are adding cups...as I've lost most of my boobs... But I felt like a princess in my dress. I almost forgot how much I loved it! I'm sorry I can't show you pictures since Mikey frequently reads this...but I'm dying to show you!

My next fitting is March 29. They told me I could continue to loose weight and we can have more than 3 fittings...how nice is that!!?? So, I will continue to workout daily and see where it takes me. I'm not really looking to loose too much more, but I want to continue my healthy lifestyle and I'm so glad that it won't interfere with my dress fittings!

Tomorrow we will be in Chicago all day for our Pre-Cana class. I'm looking forward to it but also kinda nervous because I don't know what to expect. I will let you know how it goes!!

They are like little tiny presents

2009-03-10T20:16:00.002-05:00

This morning one of my friends from work handed me her RSVP...the very 1st one!! It made me smile for the rest of the day...

I was so antsy today. I could not wait to rush home and look in our mailbox. I was dying to see who else RSVP'ed. The suspense was killing me! When Mike and I got home we raced each other to the mailbox...and pulled out 4 little tiny presents!

Mike opened 2 and I opened 2. I swear it felt like Christmas all over again!! It will be so fun to come home to these tiny lovely things...every day until April 1st.

Then I was off to pick up my dress from my aunt's house. She has been keeping it safe for me. Because tomorrow is my 1st fitting appointment! Everything is moving so fast...I'm so excited yet slightly overwhelmed because I still have a lot to do.

Here is my list:
Ceremony programs
Complete photographer list
Day of Timelines
Ribbon my (250) favors
Ribbon my (250) bubbles
Assemble grandparent/parent wedding photos
Wrap all the presents
Wash all 90 vases for our centerpieces
Shop for baskets/fabric pens for the guestbook quilt squares
Seating chart

I might be missing a few things but to me that is a lot only because we have so many guests. But in the end it will be worth it.

I CANNOT wait for it to be here so we can PARTY our booties off!!

52 more days..

Makeup: Round 2

2009-03-08T17:15:00.008-05:00

I went to MAC for my 2nd makeup trial. I've never bought any MAC products but have always wanted to. And I'm SO glad I did!

She did a wonderful job! I loved it soooo much....I bought $243 of makeup! I've never done that in my life. But I think it was well worth it.

Check it out..

I didn't buy the lipstick because I didn't really like it.

This picture was taken about 12 hours later....It stayed on without any touch ups!

She even mapped it out for me (with real makeup) so I know exactly what she did.

I've asked Bella (moh) do it for me the day of. She is sooo sweet!

What do you girlies think?? Do you like it?

Breaking them in..

2009-03-08T17:04:00.004-05:00

My aunt Therese got me my bridal shoes...and I've been starting to break them in. And surprisingly they are extremely comfortable!

Here are the beauties..

**excuse the clutter everywhere...I can't seem to find anywhere to put things lately!

I love them...however I think they make my feet look big. I'm only a size 7..but they look much bigger than that. Oh well..they are pretty nonetheless.

Only 54 more days!

Baby G has arrived!

2009-03-04T19:32:00.003-06:00

Last night (or should I say early this morning) at exactly 3:31am. My friend Steve called to inform me that his wife, Rachael was in labor and on the way to the hospital. All I heard in the background was "Oh shit, oh shit...I have to push..I HAVE to push!" Then he had to go. I laid in bed worried. How in the hell was I suppose to go back to bed?!!!! So, I decided to text Steve-and let him know I'd be willing to jump in my car and meet them if they needed me to. Not more than 5 minutes later...Steve called to tell me Rachael had the baby in the CAR in front of the hospital!!!!!!! I was like "Say...WHAT?!!" And followed it by asking if mommy and the baby were ok...and YES they were fine. She came out 'squakin'-Steve said! Now I really wasn't able to fall asleep!! My best friend's just had their baby in their car!!!! When has anyone ever heard that?!

I called the hospital...and asked if I could come. They declined my request... So, back to tossing and turning. There was NO way I was going back to sleep. I just laid there until it was time to wake up and get ready for work.

Before I went to work I stopped by to see the new baby and to check on Mommy and Daddy.. but it was too early for visiting hours-but it was really nice to talk to Steve for a while..

After work-I FINALLY got to see the little munchkin!

I present to you..Autumn Rae..Born 3/4/09 at 3:37am. 6lbs 12oz. 20in long.

She is beautiful.

I did not want to put her down!

Daddy and Baby Autumn...aren't they adorable?!

Assembling our invitations

2009-03-01T16:46:00.003-06:00

Today was an exciting day! Mike and I assembled our wedding invitations! It was a tedious task that took us 3 hours to do. But I had fun! (However, I can't promise you that Mike had the same amount of fun..)

Here is a sneak peak...

They will be going in the mail tomorrow or Tuesday. It's so exciting!

We officially have 2 months left. And I know these next 2 months are going to fly...(well I hope so!)

The last big project I have is our programs...stay tuned!

Crossing things off..

2009-02-22T15:14:00.003-06:00

I got a lot done today..

Cleaned the entire house.

Worked out with my new DVD

And ordered the following:
Bridesmaids gifts
Flower girl/Ring Bearer gifts
Groomsmen/Usher gifts
Mother of the Bride/Mother of the Groom gifts
Favors + ribbon
Place cards

Spent a lot of money today! But I got a lot done!

I am still working on the Father gifts...but my Dad's will take some time. I'm planning on a photobook from Shutterfly. When I'm finished I will give you a sneak peak.

But I'm super glad I got a lot crossed off my list!

Grandpa's 80th Birthday

2009-02-22T15:02:00.003-06:00

Febuary 13th was my Grandpa's 80th birthday...it is also my Grandma's birthday. They share the same day. Isn't that cute?

We celebrated my grandparent's birthdays along with my cousin Annie (bm) and her boyfriend Troy's.

Here are some random pix..

Everyone said I looked like I got into 'Monny's makeup'....that was when I really knew the makeup was bad!!

Busy weekend...

2009-02-22T14:54:00.004-06:00

I got a lot done this weekend!

Saturday morning Bella and I went to my makeup trial at Studio 21. She did a great job-however, it just wasn't 'me'. The eyes were too dark. You should have seen Mike's face when I walked through the door. (It looked like he ate something terrible.) I knew it was bad...

Take a look..

The pictures don't show how dark the eyes really were. But I just didn't feel like myself-and Mike could barely look at me all day...Ha!

My girly Bella is going to help me with a trial of her own....I know it will turn out wonderful. I'm thinking more earthy tones...what do you think??

Next up birthday parties and wedding purchases!

T minus 2 weeks

2009-02-19T21:19:00.003-06:00

My first fitting will be on March 11.

I haven't blogged much about my weight loss lately because I've just been uber busy. I've been getting lots done. Which is wonderful. But I've been slacking on my bloggy blog. Bad me!

I haven't done very good since my last weight loss post. Well, I haven't done horrible either-even with going out to a tapas restaurant last weekend...and eating endless amounts of bread-I've still managed to loose another 2 pounds. But my inches haven't changed much. My waist went down a half inch...that's all. But I guess I can't complain-I didn't gain!

For the next 2 weeks I'm going to do lots of cardio. The Shred isn't doing much anymore-I think my body has become use to it. So, I bought this.. Thanks for the tip Cyd!

I'm hoping this will help me shred a few more pounds before my fittings start-because once they start I have to maintain until after the wedding. And I definitely want to keep loosing after the wedding....

Being a girl also sucks-I hate being bloated. And I have been bloated for so long now!! I wish it would stop!

If I don't loose anymore weight-I will be happy either way. I have come a long way-and feel proud for what I have lost. But can't wait to continue my weight loss after the wedding.

Oh by the way...I only have 71 more days till the wedding!!!

Thank you for the day off..

2009-02-17T07:00:00.000-06:00

Mr. Presidents!

Yesterday was President's Day-and I had the day off. (One of the perks for working for a school district)

And boy oh boy did I get a lot done!

Saturday was the day of my hair trial. Which is 2 posts below. Love it!! But I'm still trying to get use to these (short) bangs!

Saturday, Mike and I finished up our table numbers. It was one of those projects I could have done without-but they were worth every penny. I can show you a sneak peak but I can't give too much away---I want my guests to be surprised!

Hopefully our photographer gets some good detail shots of these babies!

Today I finished up all my invitation labels. Boy oh boy was that a doozy!! Yes, I took the cheaper way out and chose to use labels vs. a calligrapher. And I think they turned out so pretty! Because of my lack of knowledge of the new Microsoft Office...I had to type in each label...which took all day. But I can cross it off the list (FINALLY!). Yippee! Thank you Bella for all your help!! I'd be lost without you!!

Things left To Do:
Stuff/Seal/Stamp Invitations-mail March 2
Schedule 1st fitting-Week of March 9
Order favors
Complete DJ List and send final payment
Make up trial-Feb. 21 @ 9:30am
Order place cards
Meet with Organist-Feb. 28 @ 1pm
Start Programs
Ribbon bubbles
Meet with Aunts for Guestbook quilt squares
Finish Grandparent pictures
Pre-Cana-Mar. 14 @ 8am-5pm
Book accommodations for wedding night
Make Rehearsal Invitations

It's not too bad. I'm not stressing.

Mother of the Bride

2009-02-16T17:53:00.004-06:00

Can I just say my Mom got the most awesome-est dress!!!! I absolutely LOVE it!!!!

She got it at Cache. I really love the color...swoon! However, she doesn't think the shoes match-but I do. What do you all think???

She is gonna be one HOT Mama!

We hung out this weekend and had a blast! We got to practice dancing for the big day! ha!

Love you Mom!

My trial hair

2009-02-16T09:39:00.004-06:00

Sorry I've been MIA lately. I've been super busy....with babysitting, doing hair, dates with my mom...and having my hair done.

Yup, I had my trial hair done over the weekend!

I use to work with my friend Liz at our old salon, and I always told her I wanted her to do my wedding hair. And she use to tease that I'd be getting married first (she is 5 years older than me)....and sure enough- I AM!! And luckily we kept in touch all these years... and boy am I glad.

I LOVED my hair!!!

She used a combination of a waving iron and fat curling iron t0 give it more of a natural look to it. I wanted something natural and not so perfect looking-yet still looking like myself..

She also gave me a bang trim...I love how she cuts my bangs. But we cut them shorter-so they will be long enough to swoop over on the actual w-day. So, keep in mind the bangs will look different... And she will back comb it more-to give me more height. But you get the overall idea...

I'm sure you don't want to see every possible angle...but you're getting them anyway!

Please excuse how ugly I was this day-I didn't have much makeup on....

Ceremony: 1-31-09

2009-02-15T14:32:00.003-06:00

Mr. and Mrs. McIntyre!

Up Next: Party time!

1-31-09: Pre-Ceremony

2009-02-08T13:26:00.004-06:00

Day of: Bella getting ready

2009-02-07T23:30:00.000-06:00

I was lucky enough to have a sleepover with the bride the night before her wedding. I was reluctant to get up-as I am truly not a morning person-but I got up and I was really excited for the day to begin. Bella was sooooo calm! She was such a wonderful bride!

Her she is relaxing on the couch with her morning coffee and painting her nails.

And here she is pre-makeup and hair. Isn't she just glowing?!!?!!

I wish I got more getting ready shot-but I was busy helping her get ready....I was privileged to do her hair.

More pix to come!

The McIntyre Rehearsal

2009-02-07T21:57:00.003-06:00

Friday, January 30 was the Eve of Ryan and Bella's wedding. They were both so calm-but you could see the spark of anticipation in their eyes!!

Here are a few pictures of the rehearsal..

Enjoy!

Isn't that a lovely bouquet?! Props to BM Katie and I for our fabulous detail work ;-)

I'm alive..

2009-02-07T21:37:00.003-06:00

I've been a horrible blogger this week.

My apologies.

I've been super busy. Cleaning (which hasn't been done in a while), cat sitting (ha.), and most importantly-organizing my wedding plans. After sitting down this week (a few times) and putting together a calendar timeline of things to do. I've found out this is not going to be an easy month! My invitations go out March 1. And when I thought my guest list was finished...it's not (more on that in another post), our direction card must be done-but I'm still waiting on a vendor to give me specific details for our hotel, our DJ list (along with step by step introductions) is due March 1, I'm having trouble with my mail merge for my labels, and I've been to Michael's and Officemax a million times this week. There is just a cluster-*&%^ of things to be done this month-and you could say I'm slightly overwhelmed.

I was suppose to guest blog on a friend's blog-for a recap of her wedding...never got time to do it. I feel like a horrible friend. But I am going to start posting pictures today-on my blog. Hopefully, she will forgive me....when she sees I did this for her and her hubby.

Today my friend Devon and I went and bought our flower girl dress! Mahala didn't want to take it off! She was just the cutest thing....

Blogs I love

2009-02-06T09:41:00.004-06:00

What? Another award?!! Wow, I feel so loved! I was nominated for this cute lemonade award from my friend Cyd at The Sweetest Occasion! And she is the sweetest! Thanks Cyd!

Here are the official rules of the game...

1. Put the logo on your blog or post.
2. Nominate at least 10 blogs which show great attitude and/or gratitude.

3. Be sure to link to your nominees within your post.

4. Let them know that they have received this award by commenting on their blog.

5. Share the love and link to this post and to the person from whom you received the award.

Here we go-I nominate the following!

Blabber And Blunder
The Gagester
Project Subrosa
That Wife
Canadian Bride
M and M Wedding
Mischeif + Madness
The Two Skinny Bitches
The Sweet Wife
(sub)urbanity

Happy Blogging!

Let's be honest

2009-02-06T09:16:00.003-06:00

I have been tagged by the fabulous Canadian Bride to receive the Honest Scrap Award! To accept I have to tell you 10 random (honest) facts.
Here is goes..

1. I have never been on an airplane. And my first time on our honeymoon!
2. I ramble. A lot. Sometimes I just keep talking and talking-and I don't mean to-it's just me.
3. I have insulin resistance-so I can't have carbs or sugars. And am constantly battling with my weight. It's very annoying. But I'm almost to my goal!
4. My scared shitless that I won't be able to have a baby. I've never tried. But it's one of those things I realllllly want-and things never go the way I want them to go.
5. I have 2 cats named after vodka. Stoli and Demetri. We treat them like our babies-spoiled rotten!
6. I am the oldest of all my cousins and brothers and sisters-but still seem to get treated like I'm still 15. (Extremely annoying!)
7. I hate doing the dishes.
8. But I love to clean my house.
9. I love coffee and cigarettes. Gross combo-but I love it in the morning.
10. I'm a hair stylist.

I'm suppose to nominate some more blogs-but I don't want to duplicate anyone. SO-whoever wants to be tagged-tag yourself!! Have fun!

Bella has 1 day left!

2009-01-30T08:47:00.004-06:00

My best friend (and MOH) Bella is getting married tomorrow!! I can't believe this day is here already. I remember as if it were yesterday when she told she was engaged. She has been full of smiles and excitement throughout her whole engagement. Her and Ryan are an amazing couple. I wish both of them a lifetime of happiness.

Tonight is her rehearsal/rehearsal dinner. I am busy getting ready..I won't be posting until Sunday. But stay tuned! I will have pictures! I will also be guest blogging on Bella's blog while she is in Sunny Jamaica on her honeymoon-check it out next week!

Congratulations Bella and Ryan! I love you both!

My {future} MIL is the greatest.

2009-01-29T08:00:00.000-06:00

I am one of the luckiest brides to say I have the greatest future mother-in-law. She is like a 2nd mother to me. (Even if she teases me-calling me her little princess) She has raised 3 boys...so having me around has been a challenge for her-but I know she enjoys every bit of it-she told me so!

She is hosting our rehearsal dinner...and last week she promised she would take care of reserving our reservations.

And she did!

We will be having our rehearsal at our church at 5pm on May 1st, 2009.

At 6:30pm we will all gather at the Stonecreek Grill. Mike has lots of friends who work there, and have been going there since it opened. We all love their food! And it's such a cute place! I just love it! We will have the upstairs loft.

Dinner as follows:
Italian Beef
Fried Chicken
Red Roasted Potatoes
Corn on the cob
Garden Salad
Cake (half chocolate and half white)
Soda, iced tea, and coffee

She enabled me to cross yet another thing off my list!!

She is awesome!!

Love you Jill! Thank you!

Honeymoon Part 2

2009-01-28T20:11:00.007-06:00

Day 2: Our road trip to Santa Barbara.

We will leave L.A. May 5th and drive up the coast to Santa Barbara. We will be staying at this hotel. It's nothing really fancy but it's perfect for us. We are trying to keep this honeymoon as low cost as we can.
Day 1: LA
Day 2: Road trip-Check in with a bottle of Chardonnay and a box of gourmet chocolates-relax on the beach-and take in as much as we can..
Day 3: Enjoy more of the beach-and then go for our sunset dinner cruise on a 50ft. sailboat.
Check out this view..(I wish we could leave now!)
Day 4: Personalized country winery tour at 4 different wineries. Including a gourmet picnic lunch. A bottle of our chosen wine and 2 souvenir wine glasses. After our wine tour we may walk into town and check out some local restaurants and maybe wind down at some of their local night clubs.
Day 5: Beach and mountain horseback riding. I am especially looking forward to this. I've never seen mountains or the ocean. And absolutely love horses.
Day 6: Our road trip back down the coast to LA, there we will do some more site seeing. Our flight won't be departing until 11:30pm....

Then we will be back home Sunday. Just in time to celebrate Mikey's birthday!

I'm not sure what I'm most excited for....our wedding day...or our honeymoon!!!

T minus 6 weeks

2009-01-27T21:14:00.003-06:00

So..last week I told you I have 7 more weeks until my 1st fitting...and I gave you my measurements. (I still can't believe I did that!!) And I promised I would start working out more...

Well, I have! I'm down 3lbs. I've conquered the war I was having with my scale.

It's all thanks to Cyd over at The Sweetest Occasion. She has been my ultimate inspiration! And Jillian Michael's with the 30 Day Shred. She's been kicking my ass. Along with Pick Your Spot Pilates. I feel amazing. I can tell a difference in my stamina and endurance...in just 7 days. It's such an amazing feeling. And my clothes are fitting more loosely each day. I've gone down a couple inches too...

Arm: 11 1/2
Waist: 33 1/2
Hip: 39
Thigh: 20

I think I have done pretty darn good! I hope those inches keep going down!

I just booked my 1st vacation!

2009-01-26T19:58:00.005-06:00

I am so excited! I can barely contain myself!

We just booked our flights for our honeymoon!

Our Itinerary reads as follows:
Departing from Chicago: May 4 at 8:07AM
Arriving in LA at 10:36AM

We will be exploring LA, Beverly Hills, Hollywood and Santa Monica our first 2 days in CA. I am a city girl at heart-and I had to see LA if we were coming to California!! We will be staying at the Sky Hotel. It's nothing like the Hilton-but check it out! I just love how fresh and modern it looks. I'm usually the more vintage chic but I love this hotel! I just booked our reservation and the guy who checked us in was super nice! He also said in the beginning of May is the start of their hot season-80 degrees! I am SO looking forward to that! (Here in Chicago it's only 13 degrees...bbbrrrrrrrrrrrr!)

I need some ideas of some cool lounge bars or some hot night clubs! We want to celebrate our 1st night! Any ideas ladies? I have a fav cousin who lives in West Hollywood and she has given me some ideas so far.. The Roxy, Whisky A Go-Go, Elevate Lounge...I'm not sure if we will be able to visit all of them..but we are going to try and hit up a few! I think our plan is to take a cab to Sunset Strip and just walk... I can't wait!

May 5 after breakfast we will drive over to the Santa Monica Pier. I can't wait to see, smell and feel the ocean. I've never seen it. I can't wait. I can't tell you how excited I am!

Next up...our drive to Santa Barbara!

Pretty little dresses

2009-01-24T16:36:00.004-06:00

My friend Devon and her daughter, Mahala (my flower girl) came over and we had a shopping adventure! We first went to Burlington Coat Factory to look for flower girl dresses. Unfortunately, we had no luck. None of us fell in love with any of the dresses..

Here is one we thought we liked. But then soon realized we all hated it...

Then we headed over to David's Bridal. I am not a fan of this store at all...but we looked around and found one we loved! In fact, Mahala didn't want to take it off! She felt like a little princess. But I thought $110 was too much for a flower girl dress. But this is the style we all liked! And isn't Mahala the cutest?!

Please excuse my camera phone-I forgot my camera at home!

Now I am scouring the internet in the search of an affordable dress that matches the one at David's Bridal. So far, I'm not having any luck. I mean how hard can it be to find a plain tulle dress?!

Do you girls have any suggestions??? Please help!

Little details

2009-01-22T19:21:00.006-06:00

A few weeks ago I posted numerous cake toppers and asked you all what you thought. (Thank you soo much for all the comment love!)

It arrived!

And it's better than I expected! And all under $20! I love it!

Our cake picture is grainy and hard to see-but I tried to find one that looked very similar. Imagine this topper on this cake..

It's crazy how the littlest things excite me so much!

A gift from my MOH.

2009-01-21T19:59:00.005-06:00

I received a gift from my MOH recently. She is the craftiest chick I know. And one of the most thoughtful people I know.

In almost 3 months my last name will start with a B...instead of a J.

I absolutely love it. And look forward to admiring it for years and years to come.

Thank you Bella! I wish I was as crafty as you-I'd make you one too!

7 week countdown

2009-01-20T21:10:00.003-06:00

Guess what?!

I have 7 more weeks until my 1st fitting! Yikes!

I've lost my holiday weight. But I think I've plateaued. I'm stuck at a 30lb loss. I've stayed the same weight for 2 weeks. It's a little disheartening. I've maintained a strict diet-and still no losses. However, I haven't worked out since Dec. 5th. I've been bad! But I can't complain about my 30lbs loss...

Today I restarted the 30 Day Shred. And it definitely kicked my ass-but not as bad as the 1st few times I did it. So, I think that is good, right?! I'm going to start a workout schedule. Every other day I will do the 30 day Shred along with 20 minute cycling. And every day in between I will do 30 minute pilates with 20 minute cycling. These activities are my favorites...so I think I will get the most out of them. I might even try walking 30 minutes on my lunch break.

I really want to loose some more inches around my tummy. I don't care much about the weight--I just hope to loose some more inches. I'm also hoping that updating this weekly will help me! (This is my blog friend, Cyd's idea!)

Today I'm at...
Arm: 12
Waist: 35
Hip: 43
Thigh: 22

I'm not sure what a healthy goal is. I guess I just want to go down 1 more pants size..

Wish me luck!

and umm..motivation. I'm lacking motivation..(but I'm trying to concentrate on the dress!)

Wedding day: Accessories

2009-01-17T11:42:00.005-06:00

Here is a sneak preview of my pretty little accessories for the big day..

These shoe clips are my something borrowed. My God-Mother wore these on her wedding day 20-something years ago. They are laying on top of my something old, which is a handkerchief my Grandma held on her wedding day 53 years ago. One of her best friends made it for her. Aren't they just lovely?

Here are my wedding day earrings. They were a Christmas present from my cousin Luke-he's got great taste, doesn't he?! He purchased them from here. I gave his mom a list of earrings that I would love..I didn't want anything too expensive. They will probably only be worn 1 day. I absolutely love them.

Here is my (wrinkly) veil that just came in the mail last week! As soon as the wrinkles relax I will put it on for you to see. It is exactly what I wanted...only $50! Check out affordable veils here. Again, why pay $300+ on something when you don't need to?? I'm still not sure if I will wear the top layer as a blusher...but I'm definitely thinking about it!

Here are items on my wish list.

This beautiful vintage garter. I just love it. Found here. I cannot wait to order it!

And last but not least my shoes..

It was hard for me to find plain shoes so I can attach my beautiful shoe clips. I've looked every where. But I love how classic these are. And they will be perfect for my shoe clips!

I still don't have my something blue..but I really want these..(hint..hint!)

Are you incorporating any heirloom pieces into your wedding day attire?

Planning our honeymoon

2009-01-16T21:27:00.003-06:00

This has been the toughest part of our planning. I have never really traveled before. Yes, I've been to our surrounding states (Iowa, Wisconsin, Michigan, Indiana) But no where else. I haven't even been on plane! I had no idea what I was doing. (Thank you Tina and April for helping us!!)

First, we thought we wanted to go to Italy. And ideally we would still LOVE to go there. But we just can't afford it. Then we thought New Orleans. I love antiques, and what better place to celebrate our marriage-then a beautiful old town?! But that still didn't really excite me. This is because ever since I was little I've had this infatuation about California. I always wanted to go there. Mike was hesitant at first because he has been there numerous times. But he knew how bad I wanted to go-so we compromised and decided to go to a region he was never been to.

Santa Barbara! And L.A.! Santa Barbara for the romantic part of our trip and L.A. to party like newlywed rock stars!!

May 4th we will fly into L.A. and stay 2 days. We are going to try and explore the first day...and hopefully stay in a beautiful hotel with lots of spa options (per MY requests!). Yes, I want to get pampered a little! I think I deserve it after 11 long months of planning!! We have yet to find a hotel we agree on. Also, we need to find some great night time hot spots-and party like rock stars! Ha!!

Anyone have any ideas of hotels? Or activities we can do in the L.A. area??

May 6 we are going to drive to Santa Barbara and stay at one of these hotels. They aren't anything special-but they have a great package we want! Check it out!
-A sunset dinner cruise on a 50ft. catamaran, we will see sea lions, dolphins and whales!
-Tour through the Santa Barbara wine country-yummy wine!
-A bottle of chardonnay
-And Lots of other wonderful treats-those were just my favorites!

Our last day will be May 9. We will drive back to L.A. on the coast line and hopefully get some amazing shots. I can't wait to fill my camera up with so much eye candy!

I cannot wait for honeymoon. The first 2 weeks of May will be so many firsts for me. 1st (and only time) getting married, first time on a plane, first time in California, first time on the ocean...first time being husband and wife.

I simply cannot wait!

Finally.

2009-01-16T21:17:00.002-06:00

I finally bought Mike's wedding ring today! It was a special order-so we won't be receiving it for another 3-4 weeks. I can't wait to take pictures of our wedding bands along with my e-ring. I'm also relieved that I can cross this big purchase off my list. I was really worried about it...from the holidays and other special occasions-I was worried that I wasn't going to be able to afford it. But with a little saving-I was able to do it! Thank goodness-because I was starting to have nightmares that we were at the alter and I was like "OH SHIT! I forgot to buy the ring!"....trust me-it isn't a good feeling.

It was cute-as we were leaving the store Mike had this cheesy grin on his face and says "I can't wait!!". And I just smiled and thought neither can I!

Pretty things

2009-01-13T20:08:00.003-06:00

I received my invitations in the mail last week! I wish I could show them to you all... I just don't want to ruin the surprise-some of my guests read my blog! But I will tell you they are lovely! They came out perfect. I took the cheap route and ordered them through The American Wedding. If you want to see them-shoot me an email and I'll send you the link! It took me a while to figure out which ones I wanted. There were so many-and I'm the worlds worst indecisive person I know. There were some gorgeous ones I had my eye on from different designer websites-but my Dad is footing the bill on 98% of our wedding, so I tried to cut costs when I could. I am incredibly happy with my invitations and wouldn't change them for the world. (My Dad likes them too!)

What are you doing for invitations? Are you trying to cut costs? Do you like pre-made invitations?

Since I've hit the 3 1/3 month mark-I've gotten so excited! I feel like our wedding is just around the corner. There is talk of showers, bachelorette parties, fittings, etc. Yet I still have so much to do. I got caught up in the Holidays-and haven't done much planning. But fortunately I'm not stressed at all. Which is a surprise for me. I'm still super laid back. However, starting February I have to get my booty in gear!

Here is my current To-Do list:

Plan honeymoon ASAP
Order Mike's wedding band
Find/purchase wedding shoes
Decide on the color shoes for my girls
Wedding day lingerie
Finish all my DIY projects
Look into Ceremony programs
Finish DJ list (I keep changing it!)
Choose readings/ceremony music
Design map insert for invitations

I'm sure I'm missing some important things...but I will update as I think of them!

Bachelorette Fun!

2009-01-12T20:22:00.004-06:00

***Warning uber long post!

Saturday night was my best friend Bella's bachelorette party! We all met downtown (Chicago) and partied in our hotel room. Watched Bella open all of her lovely gifts and played a 'girly' game-questions like "What was your most memorable kiss?".

I have to admit I had a BLAST!!! Being an 'outsider' of all her childhood friends-I was a little worried about how much fun I would have since I am so shy. But her friends are so sweet! I love them all. I'm happy that I have became friends with them!

We dressed her up in fun stuff! A purple lay with condoms and suck for a buck candies. A shot glass necklace, a whistle, a Miss. Bachelorette sash And a pretty veil! Ha!

We hit up the Baton Lounge first. It is a Drag Queen show. It was hilarous! Bella got to go up and annouce her name and her wedding date. Her heart was racing-poor thing!! I'm sad to say that I have no pictures from the Baton Lounge. "No pictures allowed" Boo! But it was a hoot!

Then we walked our way through the snow...to Howl at the Moon. I LOVED this bar! It's a modern piano bar. We had a freakin blast! We danced next to the piano all night! I'm sure some of us got a little wild and crazy-but that's the whole point of a bachelorette party, right?! The best part is that Bella the time of her life. Everytime I looked at her, she was smiling and laughing. It's a wonderful feeling to know that you were a part of making a friend so happy!

Love you Bella!!

Here is the last shot of the night....These girls are hilarious!

PS: We are taking a vote. Bella did her own makeup for this day-and is consdiering doing her own makeup for the wedding. All of us girls think she did an amazing job..and say go for it?! What do you all think? Doesn't she look gorgeous?!

Fabulous!

2009-01-11T19:12:00.003-06:00

I received this Fabulous Award from Cyd at The Sweetest Occasion! How sweet is she?! Never thought this little ole blog would be award worthy! But I accept ever so graciously! Thanks, Cyd! It's taken me a while to post this-but I finally got my computer fixed and running! Here we go..

Rules - List 5 Obsessions/Addictions that you have, and tag back to the person(s) that gave you the award. Post the rules and tag and additional 5 people.

1. TV! I go crazy if I miss an episode of the following: Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice, 90210, Desperate Housewives, Brothers & Sisters and Heroes.

2. Blogging. I love to blog and read blogs. Ever since my good friend Bella introduced me to these addicting little blogs-I've been hooked ever since. I go nuts if have more than 10 unread. I have to read them throughout the day. I think it's some sort of OCD...

3. Getting manicures. Ever since I stopped biting my nails a year ago, I MUST get a manicure every week. I hate the way my nails look without polish!

4. Redbull or Coffee. I can drink them all day long! I have to have my daily dose of caffeine or watch out!!

5. Weddings. My wedding, friends wedding's...anything wedding related! I love spending coutless hours looking for cute/inspirational wedding related things. I go around and around surfing the web-After I get married I think I will have to find a new hobby...I won't know what to do with all my time!

I tag:

Blabber and Blunder
I Hate Planning My Wedding
(sub)urbanity
The Sweet Wife
M And M Wedding

MIA

2009-01-07T13:55:00.002-06:00

I've been with out a computer lately-I miss you guys. Saturday I found out I had a virus on my computer. I tried really hard to fix it. But the virus was so bad that I couldn't even download anything-the virus kept blocking it. I have to admit that it's has got to be the most frustrating things to deal with!! I'm pretty computer savvy too. The computer tech here at my work said I did everything right-but the virus spread way too much. I sent it away to let the professionals fix it..and now they can't even turn it on! Wtf! It's not even 2 years old yet!! Geez!

I'm at work right now posting this (shhhh!). I will hopefully have my computer back by the weekend-and I have lots of stuff to post! And to comment on!

A photo a day..

2009-01-02T18:10:00.003-06:00

I found this new project from one of my friend, Bella. I saw it and had to copy her. She is OK with it! In fact, the article tells you to encourage your friends to do it. So, I am encourage you ALL to do it too!

Project 365. The point is to take a picture every day for a year. To capture every moment in your life. See how you change and grow in as little as a year. Life moves so fast-why not capture every moment you possibly can..? Plus, there is one great benefit. You become a better photographer. Score!

I've already started. I have plenty of pictures from 01-01-09. And today I showed the aftermath of our NYE party. I find it hilarious...

Take a peak..

The jello shots were my (and everyone else's) enemy. And we started with less beer...and people kept bringing more (there is more on the top)! Good times!

PS: Don't worry- I will not be posting a picture a day.

Peony Inspiration

2009-01-02T12:31:00.004-06:00

I am meeting with my Florist this month. I need to bring some flower inspiration with me. I know I want white peonies for my bouquet. And I think I want white and blush peonies for the girls. I need help with the boutonnieres though. Ranunculus, maybe? I'm not sure what the top left boutonniere is, does anyone know? I really like that one! But I'm sure my florist will know. I'm hoping he will help me with designing something for our alter at church and our head table at the reception. We are sticking with candle centerpieces (which I love by the way!). I will save that for another post!

Here is what I came up with! Peony overload!!

Thank you Cyd from The Sweetest Occasion for hooking me up with Bridal Canvas!!

What do you think?!

What kind of flowers are you having for your wedding?

Happy New Year!!

2009-01-02T08:27:00.003-06:00

Sorry I am a day late..but yesterday I swore I had alcohol poisoning.

Hope everyone had a safe and wonderful New Years! I definitely did. Close friends and family came over for some fun. From what I remember a lot of us (mostly me) made a fool out of ourselves..! Good times!

I'm not one for making new year's resolutions. Last year, I swore I would loose weight. And in a year I've lost 35 pounds. I still have a few more to go... + all the holiday pounds! But I am trying to make this my life commitment. Only indulge once in a while. I made it 1 year-I can make another. One step at a time, right?

2009 is going to be a great year. In just 1 month my friend Bella is getting married. Then 3 months after her wedding-Mine will be here! I will be become a Mrs. for the 1st (and only time) and I will also get on a plane (to our honeymoon) for the 1st time. Possibly make a baby.. This is gonna be one hell of an exciting year!

I can't wait!

2009 here we come!

His ring.

2008-12-31T13:29:00.004-06:00

For months, Mike has been trying to find her 'perfect' wedding band. I find it so cute that he is being so picky! He is an artist..so he wants something different than the norm. We have looked at all the local jewelers, chain jewelers, online jewelers...and we finally found the one!

Source

It's not only what he wants-but it's extremely affordable too! I am hoping to make the purchase this weekend! It is a special order-so we won't receive for a few weeks. But I can't wait for us to have it, and another thing checked off our list!

Has your fiance been picky about his ring?

Playing dress up!

2008-12-29T19:31:00.007-06:00

I've been a bad blogger. I am really sorry! I blame the Holidays! I had a great Holiday by the way... I hope everyone else did too! I was constantly reminded how fast the wedding will come after these Holidays are over. It definitely put me back in gear!! The excitement is back on! Woo hoo!

This weekend me and my boy went and registered for our tuxes! It was so fun to play dress up! (Well..for me anyway!)

We decided to go with the Perry Ellis 1-button notch.

I wish the flash wasn't so bright....new camera-still working on using it properly! But you get the idea! Doesn't he look so cute!?!

We also chose the plain ivory satin vest. With a paisley tie. (this was all Mike's idea-it's definitely the artist in him!) And I think it looks fabulous!! I just LOVE it!!

Now on to the groomsmen....

The closest green they had was Sage. And here is a picture...not a very good picture (I'm a noob!) I just don't think it goes well with the bridesmaid dresses.
What do you think?

Here is my other option...again thanks baby! I love his artistic talent... He is so good with putting things together!

"How about ivory vests and brown paisley ties...since we our colors are green and brown?", he says.

"Wow...you're a genius!", I say.

Viola!

I'm still not 100% sure about this. That's why I need you guys!! What do you think? Do I risk the green? Or do I go with ivory and brown?

I have to admit...I really hate the matchy-ness of all the groomsmen in the same color (like all green). To me-it's like color overload. And I've been thinking about how I was going to incorporate more brown..and this may be perfect.

And if I go with ivory and brown for the boys-Should I give the ushers and my Dad a brown hanky or no hanky? Soooo many options!

Now I'm off to order my invitations!

Camera Crazy

2008-12-26T22:39:00.004-06:00

I hope everyone had a fabulous Holiday! We definitely did! It has been so nice to spend time with family for the last few days. It is also nice to relax now.... we have had 3 days straight of Christmas's!

One of my favorite gifts is the new camera I received from my Dad! The Canon Powershot A2000IS. I was in desperate need of a new camera.. Thank you Daddy!

After I read Anne Ruthmann's tutorial on Weddingbee...I have been dying to take some shots of my ring. And I'm sorry for stealing your blog idea Bella! But you inspired me!!! Check her ring shots! They are amazing!

I have been playing with my camera all night..and possibly went a little overboard! But here is what I came up with!

These 2 are my favorites.

(Dimitri decided he wanted to be included!)

2008-12-24T08:22:00.004-06:00

Dear blog friends,

I have been a bad blogger. I have been so wrapped up in baking things like Potica for my Grandpa, shopping for last minute presents (I'm a procrastinator..), wrapping presents, dogsitting, and cleaning up the house for Holiday guests!

Christmas is my favorite time of year. And today Christmas Eve..is my ultimate favorite day! Today we will go to my Grandma's house and hang out-watch old time Christmas classics like, Suzie Snowflake, Rudolf the Red Nose Reindeer, Hard Rock Coco And Joe, The 3 Wise Men....And we will all feast on Christmas dinner. (I'm also in the middle of making the scalloped potatoes as we speak) Then we will listen to a Christmas story by my Uncle Fr. Bart. He loves to drag it on....to make the gift opening suspense even stronger! Then we open all of our presents!! I have 6 cousins and Mike and my cousin's boyfriend have joined our clan...so we all pull out of a hat-then exchange gifts. I pulled Troy-Annie's (BM) boyfriend. I'm so glad we include all our significant others now. It really makes them feel special and part of the family.

We will all miss my cousin Nate, he is in California at Camp Pendleton. He and I loved to spend Christmas together. We were connected at the hip-as my Grandma likes to say.. He will be home for our wedding-so exciting! Which makes it a little easier without him at Christmas. (Love you Nate!)

Tomorrow is Christmas with my future In-laws! We get up early, she makes us breakfast, we take all day to open our presents...and then we feast on dinner! It's so fun hanging out with his brothers-they really make me feel like family. It's nice having older brothers! (even if they tease me!) And I love his parents too....(they also tease me! But all in good fun!)

I wish all of you a safe and Happy Holiday!!!

PS: I wish all this snow would stop! We have had almost 20 inches of snow since Friday...and it's still coming down hard. Whoever wished for a white Christmas-got their wish! I like snow as much as the next person-but enough is a enough! :)

Snow Day!

2008-12-20T01:19:00.002-06:00

Today was a perfect kind of day.

I woke up to our Instant Alert system-advising me that our school is closed to inclement weather. Woo hoo! Snow day! No work for me! I laid around the house and took occasional naps. It was wonderful.

Here is a picture of my antique angel. I inherited from my Grandma. She is old but I love her. (the angel that is...)

Another family tradition

2008-12-17T20:32:00.004-06:00

The week before Christmas, my Grandma and I make Kolachkys. They are a Polish cookie made from pie dough and fruit filling. We use apricot, raspberry and a few prune (for Grandpa!). My Grandma has been making these since she was a little girl and she taught me when I was a little girl. It's so much fun to make these little treasures of yumminess. Over the years, I was voted (by Grams) as the best 'pincher'...but the last 2 years I've been promoted to the 'dough roller'. My Grams just doesn't have the strength anymore. But I am Kolachky police! They have to be pinched correctly or they open up. And we are Polish and make them the correct Polish (closed) way. I'm picky about my Kolachkys. So, if someone isn't pinching properly I fix them!

Here they are ready to be put in the oven..

And here they are piping hot. As you can tell...someone wasn't pinching properly!

And here they are after the have been properly sprinkled with powdered sugar!

I had 2. (even though they are not part of my diet..) But no Christmas is complete without a Kolachky or 2...

Do you have any traditions passed down by your Grandparents?

I'm not a morning person.

2008-12-15T19:46:00.002-06:00

Source

This is what I feel like in the mornings. (and look like!)

Mike will tell you (and so will my Dad)...I am a horrible person to wake up in the morning. I kick. I yell. I push. I moan. I throw my alarm across the room.

It's not pretty.

Both of my parents are like this. So, it's definitely genetic.

This is Mike's biggest pet peeve.. I will let my alarm go off for 45 minutes. Sometimes I don't even hear it..Mike has to reach over me and turn it off. He gets up 30 minutes after I do-and I definitely ruin his morning zzzz's. Yes, I feel bad..but I physically can't help it. I've tried.

Which leads me to this thought...

How will I be the day of my wedding? I have invited my bridesmaids to sleep over and have a slumber party! I'm hoping the excitement alone will get my ass up in the morning. But if not I have 6 girls to help me!!

Do any of you have serious problems waking up in the morning??

My favorite ornament

2008-12-14T19:19:00.005-06:00

Christmas is my favorite holiday. I actually don't even care about presents, it's more about traditions and spending time with family. Every year Mike and I have made it tradition that we and my Dad go out to a local tree farm and pick a out a real tree. This year we got a tree a little too big.. But is has got to be the most perfect tree I've ever seen. It's perfect in shape and extremely healthy (it is dripping sap onto my carpet! Yikes!)!

Here is my dad trying to get the tree just right.. (please excuse my ugly curtains...my 'landlord' wants them to stay..)

See how big it is? It takes up half of my living room! My love seat is almost pushed to the corner of the living room! And it isn't even done 'falling' yet..

Here she is! All dressed up! Ain't she puuurrrtty??!

Note: I really hope I get a new camera for Christmas-my camera is getting worse and worse..

I personally like collected and meaningful ornaments. Not the ones that are all the same. I like my tree to have some character. We both have collected all of our ornaments since we were babies. We both get one every year from our parents. It has become a tradition.

Last year, we started our own tradition by getting each other one. And here is our 1st one. I have to say it's my favorite. Isn't it so cute?!

And here are our very first ornaments. Mine is on the right-it says "Baby's 1st Christmas" and Mike's is on the left-we aren't sure what it symbolized. But it still is special.

Do you have any special traditions?

Happy Birthday Bella!

2008-12-14T08:00:00.001-06:00

Today is my friend Bella's birthday! I just wanted to wish her a Happy 26th Birthday!

Happy Birthday to you!
Happy Birthday to you!
Happy Birthday dear Bella!
Happy Birthday to you!

She is a wonderful friend. I'm so glad I have her in my life. She has been a godsend. She is such a great listener, and has been so helpful with wedding planning...even with all the wedding planning she has had to do. It's been so much fun planning our weddings together. I feel so lucky to share such a special time with her.

Her wedding is coming up so soon! January 31! She is pretty busy getting all the last minute details done. I can't wait for her wedding, it's going to be such a beautiful day.

Happy Birthday Bella!

Problem Solved.

2008-12-13T14:08:00.003-06:00

I dropped the stained bridesmaid dress off at the dry cleaner's yesterday morning. And picked it up without any stains! Our dry cleaner is awesome!

Check it out.

Before:

After:

Note to Self: Leave the dresses in the closet.

I've been tagged!

2008-12-12T14:18:00.002-06:00

I was tagged by my blogger friend Krista over at Canadian Bride...

1. Link to the person that tagged you
2. Post the rules on your blog
3. Share six non-important things/habits/quirks about yourself
4. Tag six random people at the end of your post by linking to their blogs
5. Let each random person know they have been tagged by leaving a comment on their website.

Here are 6 random things about me:

1. I leave every drawer in the house open. I will grab a shirt and forget to close it. I've done this ever since I was a little. Mike HATES it. He will try to get up to pee in the middle of the night and bang his leg on one of my drawers... I'm glad he loves me!

2. I'm an extremely picky eater. I won't eat Chinese, pork, BBQ, seafood...the list could go on and on.

3. I've never been on an airplane. Or left the Mid-west. I live in Illinois, and I've only traveled to WI., MI., IN. and recently IA. (I'm damn excited for our Californian honeymoon!)

4. I'm a hairstylist. I went to school-got my cosmetologist license......loved it. But I needed a place where I could receive good benefits and make more money. So, now I work in Accounts Payable for an School District. The ladies I work with are my family...I love all of them. (Kinda like a salon...without all the unnecessary drama) I still do hair-but for friends and family only. I'm hoping one day I will get back into the salon-I do miss it a lot!

5. I was always a size 7/8 until I turned 18. From 18-19 yrs. old I went from a size 7/8 to a size 22. (I know...you're probably thinking WHAAATT??!!) I developed Insulin Resistance (or Metabolic X)-apparently it runs in my family. But from 20-21 I dropped from a size 22 to a size 9/10. It only took me a year to loose that 100lbs. It took a lot of hard work-and the medicine helped too. I met Mike when I was 21, now I'm 26. My weight has gone up and down-but at the moment it's going waaayy down. I'm almost back into my 9/10's...and hopefully by the wedding I'll be in my 7/8's!

6. I'm daddy's little girl. My parents got divorced when I was only 2 years old. And I grew up with my Dad-and my Dad and I have nothing in common...but I look just like my mother...and sometimes I act just like her. But nonetheless...I'm daddy's little girl. And always will be.

Ok I'm going to tag the following....(I'm going to try not to duplicate!)

Blabber And Blunder
Project Subrosa
An Atlanta Bride
NYC Newlywed
Our Little Haus
That Wife

Picked up the girl's dresses..

2008-12-11T19:53:00.005-06:00

I came home last night and was lucky enough to be carrying in hand our bridesmaid dresses! I was so excited!!

No you don't understand. I was really excited.

(Mike looks thrilled, right?!)

I tried on Bella's (MOH) dress. And had a bandaid (with Neosporin in it).

Something horrible happened.

I can't believe I did this.

Is it noticeable? I swear it seems more noticeable in pictures. Maybe because I've been hyperventilating since it happened....I'm delusional now.

The dry cleaner told me if I spot clean it-it will leave spots. And if I have it dry cleaned it might fade-and they can't guarentee the spot will come out.

WTF.

What do I do now? I'm going to call a few different dry cleaner's in my area. (Does anyone know of a good dry cleaner in the Northern Chicago suburbs?????)

I feel horrible. It's not my dress. Bella paid good money (almost $200) for this dress. I want this spot(s) to come out!!!!

I could buy her a new dress and have it rushed delivered.

To me-I wouldn't care if she wore it like that. I don't think it's too terribly bad. But I feel so horrible.

I'm going to make it my mission to fix it.

I'm open to any and all suggestions.

Why me. I have the worst luck.

I'm back up and running!

2008-12-11T19:39:00.003-06:00

Woo hoo!

Modem was delivered. There is peace in my house now.

Let me start by showing you one of my favorite Christmas decorations.

It's my Nativity Scene. My Grandpa made it for me when I moved out. It's a little small, but-to me-it's perfect.

Mary, Joseph and baby Jesus came from my Uncle Danny. He passed about 16 years ago..but we remember him daily. He was a very important part of all of our lives. He was a wonderful man. And always made sure we ate our fruit! I can still hear him now.. "Here-eat a banana!"

Love you Uncle Danny. I miss you.

My modem is broken :(

2008-12-11T12:54:00.002-06:00

Sorry for the lack of posts. My modem went to modem heaven. (I'm sneaking in a post at work!!) I should have my modem on my doorstep when I get home.

I have lots of things to tell you about..

I bought a tree too big for my house.

I finally decorated.

I picked up my girl's bridesmaid dresses. And some how got neosporin on my MOH's... (Still haven't found a cure.)

I've been really crabby lately with no computer.

I'm crossing my fingers that it comes today.

RSVP's -Help!

2008-12-07T13:23:00.001-06:00

While we were at The Country Squire planning our reception with our wonderful wedding coordinator. He told us that he wants us to have a name card for each person. And for each person should have a red dot for beef and a yellow dot for chicken. This way it won't look tacky when the waiter comes to the table asking who wants what. I couldn't agree more. However, I'm having a problem with the RSVP wording. I don't want it to look tacky!

Here is where I need your help.

We look for forward to celebrating with you!
Kindly respond by April ? 2009
_Regrets _Accepts
M_____________
Please indicate name(s) for your choice of entrée
_____Filet Mignon _____ Chicken Imperial
_____Chicken tenders (10/under)

We look forward to celebrating with you!
Kindly respond by April ? 2009
Please indicate an entrée choice for each guest attending
Filet Mignon
Name(s)_________________
Chicken Imperial
Name(s)_________________
Chicken tenders (12/under)
Name(s)_________________
Unable to attend
Name(s)_________________

The favor of your reply is
requested by April ? 2009
M_______________
__ Accepts __ Regrets
Please intial your entrée choice below:
__ Filet Mignon
__ Chicken Imperial
__ Chicken fingers (12/under)

Please indicate 1, 2 or 3 for the one you like the best. Or if you have another suggestion please share!

Also, for the children's plate...should I omit Chicken fingers and just write 12 under? Chicken tenders just seems tacky to me. (Or am I just over thinking it?!)

I hate having to put the menu choices down. But our caterers are perfectionists, and want to be able to take each guest his/her food without having to ask "who had chicken" etc. I think they have this vision of the food magically appearing in front of everyone without the guests even having to think about it. Which is great..but now I'm stuck figuring out how to word our response card without looking tacky!

Please help!

Early presents-daily!!

2008-12-06T11:14:00.004-06:00

It all started last Friday when I picked up my dress from Brides by Demetrios. I can't put in to words how much I love my dress. It's going to be an agonizing 3 months before my first fitting. I just might have to go visit her and try her on a few times in between...

On Thursday, Mike and I headed over to The Country Squire-where our reception will be-to finalize our menu. Pick out our FABULOUS cake. Pick out our linens. Got our seating plans. Planned a 'kid's room'. Oh how very exciting is was to talk about it and plan this all out! I'm working on an ispiriation board..and hopefully it will be at the bottom of this post!

Yesterday, I received a phone call from Demetrios (again) telling me my bridesmaid dresses are in! Yipppeee!! They previously told me they might not be here until April and well let just say I wasn't too happy about that. So, them coming early is such a wonderful surprise! We have 2 weeks to pick them up. I just can't wait to see them in person! The suspense is killing me!

And over the last a couple days I've picked out our cake topper. Thanks to all of you-my blogger friends!!! Thank you for all the comments! I truly appreciate it! It's helped tremendously!

Everything feels like it's coming into place now. For last few months, I've sort of been taking a 'break' from planning because there wasn't much to do. It was a nice little break. But now it feels like we are FULL STEAM AHEAD! And it's just the best thrilling feeling in the world! It;s all so exciting..and I'm taking everything in day by day. I will never forget all these wonderful memories.

I'm so happy I've joined this wonderful blogosphere...it's truly a blessing to meet such wonderful and beautiful brides!

Here is a little preview of what our wedding will look like.... (I'm a newbie at making these collages..)

Sources: top; Tying the knot, Country Squire, American Wedding, After-Six, Bridal People
Bottom; Country Squire, unknown, Bridal People, Country Squire, The knot

PS: Does anyone know where those shoes are from!?? I lost the source and it's driving me crazy! I really want to purchase them!

Still Dreaming..

2008-12-02T20:16:00.003-06:00

Thank you so much for all the cake topper feedback! It's greatly appreciated!

I am not one for monograms because I think they are too modern for me. However, they are lovely. And I have grown out of the children figurines...I agree-they are a bit weird. And I'm still on the fence with the doves.

Here are few more I came up with. I'm going to choose between these 4. The top right seems very vintage to me. Simple yet elegant. And the price of $11.90 isn't too shabby either! And the bottom left is very romantic and the bottom is a keepsake holder. I'm still not sure about the doves, but they are very sweet-they make me smile. And the top right might be a little too much for me-but it looks vintage..doesn't it?

Sources: top left, top right, bottom left, bottom right

Which one do you like the best?

Think vintage...

Dreaming of the perfect Cake topper

2008-12-01T19:46:00.004-06:00

I've been having such a hard time choosing the perfect cake topper. They either look cheesy or too modern. I'm a traditional kind of girl who is envisioning a vintage wedding. But the cake topper industry is making it so hard on me.

Here are a few I kind of like..

Sources: Wedding Collectables, Rexcraft, That's my topper

I am lost in the cake topper world. Which one is your favorite?

Finalizing the guest list

2008-11-30T13:36:00.002-06:00

Oh boy. I sat down the other night and entered in all our guest addresses. It took almost 4 hours!! I couldn't believe it.

Drum roll please...

Grand total: 288

I have HUGE family. Just my side alone equals about 175. The rest is Mike's side and our friends.

Back when we first got engaged...My Dad offered to host my wedding. He told me to invite whoever I want. And I asked him "Are you sure?" a few times-knowing that each guest plate would equal around $50. He had no problem with it. But now I can't help but feel bad. He still says he doesn't care. And even if I wanted to downsize the guest list-it's almost impossible. We truly only picked the friends most dear to us. The majority of the list is family..and family friends.

Our family are really excited for our wedding because we haven't had one in quite some time. And my Dad is happy that we will all be together for a happy occasion rather than a sad one...we have had far too many funerals in the last few years. We will be happy to see a lot of family and friends we haven't seen in a while. And my Grandparents will see their 1st grandchild get married. I see the twinkle in my Grandpa's eye every time we talk about the wedding. And my Dad says that is worth every penny of the wedding..

5 more months!!!

Secured in a safe place

2008-11-29T22:16:00.004-06:00

Dropped my dress off today in a safe smoke-free and pet free zone. My wonderful Aunt took it for safe keeping. She is so sweet and so generous. I am so lucky!

Today was another eventful day..another Turkey day on my Mom's side. I think I'm done with turkey for a LONG time.

Tomorrow is my last say of vacation. I'm hoping to put up some Christmas stuff and just relax. We both need some down time.

Here is a sneak peak at my dress! Isn't she lovely?!

I fell in love all over again

2008-11-28T17:03:00.003-06:00

I picked up my dress today! And I swear I love it more than the day I ordered it. It's such a beautiful dress. I love it even more that it's ivory. And it's too big! Yay! I could have probably fit my arm down the corset. Thank God for alterations! I'm hoping that it will be even bigger by March for my 1st fitting. I have a few more pounds to loose...

I wish I could show you all pictures...but I can't. Mike reads this daily. And I don't want to ruin the surprise! If you want to see it-comment me and I will send you pix!

My MOH Bella and my other bestie Devon came with me... along with Devon's daughter (my flower girl), Mahala came with. She was a little hellion while we were there. But she was good once we put some flower girl dresses on her! I didn't like any that they had...so I let her pick whatever she wanted.

Does anyone have ideas for flower girl dresses? Please send me some links!

Here is the little beauty!

Check out that runway pose!

Even though I didn't like the dress.. I really do like the vintage lace shown above.

Practicing to be a housewife

2008-11-27T08:00:00.000-06:00

For the last few years, I've been in charge of bringing food to family holidays and get-togethers. It's fun for me because I love to cook. And I hear that once you are married-it's your obligation to make something for every party.. So, here is what I am making for Thanksgiving.

Appetizer

Taco dip
Ingredients:
2 pkg. (8 oz. each) cream cheese, softened
1 cup sour cream
8 oz. taco sauce or salsa
2 tsp. ground cumin
1 can (15 oz.) refried beans
1 cup shredded lettuce
1 cup shredded cheddar cheese
1 md. tomato, diced
1/4 cup ripe olives, chopped
1/4 cup canned green chilies, chopped
Tortilla chips or Pita chips

In a mixing bowl, beat cream cheese and sour cream until smooth. Stir in taco sauce and cumin; set aside. Spread the refried beans over the bottom of a serving platter or 13x9x2-inch dish. Spread cream cheese mixture over the beans, leaving about 1 inch uncovered around the edges. Top with layers of lettuce, cheese, tomato, olives and chilies. Serve with tortilla chips or pita chips.

Dessert

My wonder Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Cookies
Ingredients:
3/4 cup butter, softened
1 cup packed brown sugar
1/2 cup sugar
1 tsp baking powder
1/4 tsp baking soda
1/2 cinnamon
2 eggs
1 tsp vanilla
1-1/2 cups flour
1/4 tsp salt
2 cups rolled oats (I used Quaker Oats-Old fashion oatmeal)
1 cup semi-sweet chocolate chips

Preheat oven to 375 degrees.

Beat butter w/ electric mixer on medium-high for 30 sec. Add brown sugar, sugar, baking powder, baking soda, cinnamon, and salt. Beat until combined...scraping sides of bowl. Beat in eggs and vanilla. Beat as much flour as you can...then stir in remaining flour. Stir in rolled oats and chocolate chips.

Drop dough by rounded teaspoons 2inches apart onto ungreased baking sheet. Bake for 8-10 minutes or till the edges are light brown.

And I will also be making a tossed salad and the mashed potatoes to serve with dinner.

Happy Turkey Day!!

Happy Thanksgiving!

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What are you thankful for?

This year I am thankful of so many things. My family for supporting me through this engagement and planning process. My friends for always being there by listening to my vent (or freak out), giving support and helping so much with planning. Most of all I'm thankful to have Mike. We have been through so much in the last 4-1/2 years. Some bad...but so many good things. He is my best friend. And he is there for me unconditionally. (Even if he's laughing at me for crying at a animal adoption commercial..) I'm truly grateful to have him..and to be marring him in just 5 short months. And I know if I asked him what he was thankful for, I know he would say the same thing. He has had some rough times lately, and I have been by his side every step of the way. We are going to make such a great team.

Tomorrow is Turkey day! Yippee! But it's also what I am calling the "Meet the Parents" day. Mike's parents are going to join my family for Thanksgiving. I'm really excited for everyone to meet. They are such great people. I think my Grams is a little stressed out though.. She has cleaned the whole house-top to bottom. I'm serious..she dry cleaned the chairs in the dining room and took down our chandelier and cleaned it to perfection. I think she went a little overboard! She even asked if I think they will like her-she is so funny!!

My uncle (Fr. Bart-our officiant) will also be interviewing Mike's parents under oath. And that will be the final factor in all our wedding paperwork! When it's completed he will take downtown and get the stamp of approval! Woo hoo!

Happy Thanksgiving!

I'm a Wishpot Wedding Expert!

2008-11-25T19:52:00.003-06:00

I was recently notified by Wishpot to be a featured Wedding Expert. How exciting is that?! I am a huge fan of Wishpot. Wishpot is a free social shopping service that makes it easy to save and share interesting things you find iun stores or online. In all of a touch of a button- You can create wishlists and catagozing them, saving you the hassle of bookmarking everything. I don't know about you but I have several different bookmark folders. And they are a mess. I can never find what I have saved. And when I do I'm too tired to browse. Wishpot definintely makes it easy for you to bookmark and save things easily. You can also send lists to friends and family. I recommend everyone should try it. Once you start you can't stop.

Go NOW.

I'll wait.

Amazing, right?!

I'll be guest blogging at Wishpot soon so make sure to check it out!

Isn't she lovely?!

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Katie (another bridesmaid) and I had the honor of making Bella's rehearsal bouquet. Isn't it cute! And isn't Bella glowing!?? She is gonna make a gorgeous bride.

There was a great crowd at her shower. Such lovely people from both sides of their family.

Her Grandma is so cute!

Bella is so lucky to have such wonderful family and friends. I'm glad she had a great shower...and I'm glad I was able to help plan it!

My dress is ready for pick up!!!

2008-11-24T20:22:00.003-06:00

Whhhaaaaattt???

It is so early!!

But yes that's right. My dress is IN! It was the best phone call EVER!!!

I am so darn excited. I think I might have texted everyone I know... (sorry about that peeps!)

I have 2 weeks to pick it up. And I can't pick it up on weekends because they tend to get busy-and they don't want anyone stepping on it. (ME NEITHER!)

I didn't think about where I'm going to store it... hmm.. I can't keep it here. And I don't want it anywhere that has animals... No shredding of the dress please. I might have to ask my aunt. But it will be hard not to visit the dress weekly!

How should I store it? Should I get a special breathable garment bag? And then air it out frequently?

Any suggestions?

PS. If any of you would like to see my dress-comment me and I will send you the link. I can't post it because Mikey reads this daily!

Happy Birthday Mama B!

2008-11-24T20:14:00.005-06:00

Friday, November 21st was Mama B's birthday! We decided to do something special for her on Sunday for her birthday.

We made her our famous yummy spaghetti..

Bought her a cake and I decorated it..

Got her some purty flowers..

And a gift card from Dunkin Donuts!

Happy Birthday Mama B!

We love you!